When you cannot confirm for yourself if your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend is lying and cheating, the next logical step is to hire a New Jersey Private Investigator. The hiring of a Private Investigator to provide evidence of a cheating spouse can be a costly step but one that may be well worth the expense if it gives you the irrefutable evidence to confront your cheating partner who has lied and deceived you.
At Cowan Investigations we have conducted inquiries into cheating spouses where we have obtained irrefutable video, photo and other evidence of the infidelity in literally under three hours by a combination of our securing excellent intelligence from our clients and trusting our own “gut instincts”. On the other hand, cheating spouse investigations can take quite some time in order to secure evidence of cheating if in fact that is what is going on. The ABSOLUTE VERY BEST WAY TO KEEP COSTS DOWN is the quality of the information supplied by the Private Investigator from client as to when you feel your spouse is cheating. The client has to go over in his or her mind as to when their suspicions have been raised. Are there certain days? Are there certain hours? Is there a particular excuse their spouse will use in order to be capable to be out of the house that just don’t pass the sniff test?
Notwithstanding the above, there are many articles based on research that have identified certain days and times that are high risk for your spouse to partake in their infidelity, through my experience obtained as a New Jersey Private Investigator I will share:
The cheating spouse may look to spend time together on the paramour”s birthday
A cheating spouse may tell you they need to attend late meetings at work, or they will be working out late at the gym.
A cheating spouse may look to get together on business trips you do not attend but others from work do participate in. And remember, this is a high risk period for infidelity, and it does not have to be with a co-worker, the other woman/man could independently meet your cheating spouse out of town.
A cheating spouse may try and get together with their lover on the Thursday before a long holiday weekend or the Tuesday after that same weekend.
A cheating spouse may try and get together with their paramour on the Thursday or Friday before a weekend or the Monday or Tuesday after a weekend.
A cheating spouse may try and get together with their lover the days and weekends surrounding Valentines Day.
A cheating spouse may try and get together with their lover the days leading up to Thanksgiving; one of the busiest “out” nights of the year is actually the Wednesday before Thanksgiving.
A cheating spouse may try and get together with their lover Christmas parties at work where your spouse does not invite you to attend, a definite red flag should be raised if your spouse proposes staying out all night to avoid “drinking and driving”, especially in the days of cheap “UBER Rides”
A cheating spouse may try and get together with their paramour Christmas Eve Day, or the weekdays leading up to Christmas.
These are patterns that have been established through my personal experience as a New Jersey Private Investigator in addition to research I conducted on the subject matter. Often times this research may be right on the money, but the very best indicator as to what is going on with your spouse is that “gut feeling” you get as to when your not being told the truth.